By Chelsea Rosfeld
Recently the Cincinnati community lost a beloved young man, Matt James, in a tragic accident. The Etcetera staff asked a few of his Mercy friends and former classmates to share some of their special or even silly memories of this all star player and companion. Matt will be forever in our hearts and minds as we continue to encourage the Mercy community to pray for him and his family.
Stacey Kurzhals ‘10
“Well I remember matt for being funny, super tall, super sweet, humble, silly, and just a boy who when you hear his name a smile comes to your face. I don't think there's one person who would say one bad word about matt. My most fond memory is actually learning about his "symbol". Matt created a symbol for his name and he would always sign his school papers with it and he wrote it everywhere. It was an M with a line running horizontally through it. The trick of it was that it spelled out his whole name. Everyone was always like, oh matt that M thing, whatever it's silly. But secretly everyone was super jealous and tried to see if their names could be spelled with only one letter (mine does not work by the way). That's the kind of guy matt was. Special to all, a man among men, truly a one of a kind guy. Who will never be forgotten.”
Cara Meder ‘10
“I went to school with Matt from kindergarten-eighth grade and honestly don't remember him talking very much. He was in my homeroom in eighth grade and that's when I remember joking around with him by asking things like "how's the weather up there.” Matt was always such a sweetheart and I remember how surprised I was when I found out he was a St. X football star. He was always so quiet and humble at Visi, I couldn't believe how much he had really opened up in high school. Something about Matt I'll always remember is in seventh grade at Camp Joy, he was in my group and wasn't allowed to go under this house on the underground railroad because he was way too tall. We would always joke about it with him and he would laugh with us because of how shocked the workers there seemed to be when they saw him; you could tell they weren't entirely sure what to do all the while trying to stay in character. Matt was definitely a gentle giant and will never be forgotten, not because of his football talents of giant stature, but he will be remembered for his big heart. R.I.P. Matt♥”
Michelle Meier ‘10
“I sat next to him in English 8th grade year. We would have to correct each other's spelling tests each week and it was always hard for me to correct his because his handwriting was so hard to read. It seems like such an insignificant memory, but looking back on it now I am grateful to have been able to sit by him. He always so funny and knew how to put a smile on everyone's faces.”
Adrienne Bussard ‘10
“Sophomore year, we were all amazed by all the colleges recruiting him and how they were all giving him personal tours and everything, but he was so humble about it all. One time we were at the Ahlrich's and a couple of us were like gathered around him to hear him talk about his college recruits. We were all so impressed!”
Erin Nicole Eberle ‘10
“Gosh what a great kid. He was so kind and a great person to talk to. I knew I could always go to him if I needed someone to talk to. He and his family are such genuine people. The neighborhood won't be the same without him; he is already missed more than words can explain. Forever will he be in our hearts♥”
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Beth Heidemann ‘10
“In first grade we did that E-I-E-I-Oops first grade play, and he stood behind me. We were both sheep and he would scream "LOST SHEEP, LOST SHEEP.. HAVEN'T GOT A CLUE." I couldn't help but laugh every time we practiced it. My dad still brings it up. And one time in second grade, he went up to Mrs. Waltner and asked if he spelled something right and he was for real almost a half foot taller than her. Dang, he was tall.”
Michelle Heidemann ‘10
“I believe it was in 6th grade, before we had recess inside. The girls and boys always played soccer vs. each other on the top lot in the grass. Of course the guys always cheated, and that made the girls mad! And randomly out of spite and anger, I started to chase the guy running with the ball to throw it in the goal; that guy happened to be Matt. Of course not thinking, I jumped on the back of this giant classmate of mine, and I like to say I 'tackled' him, and brought him down! He was in so much shock he just looked at me with a blank stare on his face. I laugh today, thinking back to when I was younger, I tackled this 6'9'' soon to be Notre Dame Football star!! He was a great guy, and will truly be missed.
He was a big guy, with a big heart, and a quiet personality, went to St. X and became a big football star. Now he's a big star in heaven looking down on us and embracing every memory we have remembered of him. **"Only the good die young."
Melissa Funk ‘10
“I always remember Matt as being nice to everyone. Whenever we would line up or take class pictures, we all knew who would be in the back, Matt, because he was so tall. When I found out how many colleges were recruiting him when he was only a sophomore, I was amazed. We were talking about it and he seemed so humble about everything. He will be greatly missed by all and has touch a lot of people in his life.”
Anna Ford ‘10
“Matt was quiet, but when he did talk the things he said were absoultely hilarious! He was a genuinely nice person. I never heard him say anything bad about anyone. We lost touch after gradeschool, but the memories I shared with him from gradeschool will foreer be in my heart.”
Mary Rose Leisring ‘10
“I mostly remember in one of our classes we sat next to each other. He would always lean back in his chair...and although we all did that, it was always particularly scary when he would do it since he was so huge! His chair would go back dangerously far and I was always afraid he would toppled over. I also remember him standing up in class when we sat next to each other. He would tower over everyone else and when I looked up at him when I was sitting, I (and everyone else) had to look up so high to see his face. And when he would write his name with the line through the M. He was such a genuine person! He would always make everyone laugh, at least he would make me laugh in our history class since it was so boring!”
Caroline Sullivan ‘10
“I remember in eighth grade I went to a swim party at his house. I had such a good time and though I never really talked to Matt much before, when I left his house, he said "Thanks for coming Caroline." It was such a simple statement but looking back it really means a lot to me because we never really spoke directly a whole lot. He was such a great guy and I will cherish those eight years we spent together at Visi forever.”
Megan Brandt ‘10
“I never really saw much of Matt after grade school but he was probably the nicest guy ever. The fondest memory I have of Matt is when we went to Camp Joy and we were on the "Underground Railroad" and we under the house and he couldn't go because he was so tall. We always joked about it with him after that. He really was a gentle giant. All through grade school and even after that, I never heard one bad word about him. After I heard of all his football accomplishments, I was so proud that he was doing so good. It's such a tragedy to see such a good kid leave the earth at such a young age. You will be missed by all Matt. Although you are gone you will never be forgotten.”
Catherine Louis ‘10
“I mostly remember the grade school version of Matt. He always sat really far away from his desk because his knees didn't really fit under it. I also remember him always having scissors in his pocket and they were like really tiny, his fingers barely fit in them. In the eighth grade I remember him having this white board with him all the time that he would draw random things on and of course he would draw his famous name symbol. He was usually pretty quiet but he when he did talk I feel like he always had a cute little smile on his face. This past summer he was at my house after the fireworks at kuliga and as he was leaving I said "Matt get rim!" so of course he jumped up to my basketball hoop and got rim. Being the size he is, and my basketball hoop being quite old, the hoop bent downward. I could tell he felt real bad but I just laughed. You know he was a good guy because he jumped back up in the air and tried to push it back into place. Matt was an all-around good guy that had a great presence. He will surely be missed.”
Julie Ann Murray ‘10
“One of my favorite memories with Matt was in 8th grade. We were playing flag football and Matt would reach over the shorter kids backs and catch the ball. It was great!
Another favorite was how he used to write his name with the M and the line all the way through it to make a A and the two Ts.
I remember one time he asked me how many steps I thought he could jump down and I said 5, and he turned around and did 9 steps!!!
Ok this is my last one, sorry if I have taken anyone's... We were put into groups in Math class to make a proportional human being out of our groups body measurements. Matt was in my group and due to his large size and everyone else's small size, our group's huge poster ended up looking like an alien and absolutely ridiculously funny... it really didn't look human!”
Emily Meyer ‘10
“Matt was one of my favorite people in our grade because before all of the boys hit their growth spurt i was the tallest one in the grade, but after he grew i had no chance and i loved being shorter than someone. I also love how he used to write his name using only the M and putting two lines across it which made it say matt. Also, in music appreciation he always wrote on his white board, and one day he erased it and it sounded like a bird chirping and he had mark roser believing it was a bird for the rest of class.
He was and always will be a great part of our class of 2006 and we'll all miss him a ton.”